When the Hurt Goes Online: Digital Self-Harm

Digital self harm is a behaviour many parents have never heard of, yet it is becoming more common among children and teens navigating online spaces. Instead of physically hurting themselves, young people may anonymously post hurtful comments about themselves or seek negative reactions from others. These actions often stem from deep emotional distress, loneliness or a need for validation.

This article explains what digital self harm looks like, why it happens and the signs parents can gently look out for. It also offers supportive steps to help children feel heard, understood and safe both online and offline. You are not alone in this, and early awareness can make a meaningful difference.